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Why Setting Boundaries is Important in Recovery from Betrayal Trauma
I grew up in a small midwest community where neighborhoods existed without fences. It was common practice to leave car doors and front doors unlocked,
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Divorce
How to Handle Loss After Betrayal and Divorce
I’d like to take an aspect of healing and share some thoughts that I hope will help you to feel less judgement for yourself in
Emotions
Betrayal Trauma Stages of Grief
When you discover the sexual betrayal of a spouse, it plunges you into pain, loss and grief. You may experiences these betrayal trauma stages of grief.
Analogies
Modern Day Pioneer Women: Survivors of Marital Infidelity
There is a group of pioneer women among us for whom I have grown to have deep respect and compassion. Sadly, these are the women
Analogies
Anger Volcano Analogy
Within the base of a volcano, lava swirls, sometimes bubbling and popping, but generally remaining at the same level. This swirling lava is used to
D-Day
How should a wife respond to discovering her husband has been viewing pornography?
When discovering your husband has been using pornography…(Otherwise known as “When you get hit by a truck…”) Scream! When an individual is hit by a
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Double Burn Victim Scenario
It is not uncommon for me to work with a couple who is experiencing what I call the Double Burn Victim Scenario. Imagine two people
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Shaken Pop Bottle Syndrome
When women first come into WORTH, for many it is the first time they are facing the trauma of betrayal of their loved one. Some
